My boyfriend of 6 months has just broken the news to me that he wants to move to Australia and is going to start the ball rolling. Though this may not happen for a few years, it has taken me by suprise! I do love him and envisaged being together long term, but now I'm not so sure. I have never been there so I don't feel I can at this stage make this descision. He spent a year there a while ago but now he's turning 34, he wants to get back asap! The thought of leaving my mother behind, though I don't see her often is quite scary. I think I could cope as we're not that close, but I think it would probably break her heart, if not finish her off as she's 71! All these thoughts are currently going through my head and I feel so confused! Maybe I shouldn't make any decisions until I've been. Some advice would be appreciated. Thanks. From a very confused 34 year old girl.